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9The Rare Family is Quite Well Done<\/strong>
\nby Ira Bryck<\/p>\n

My wife and I are in comparable fields, and face similar resistance from customers. We\u2019re not in business together, though, because what she does- pain relief therapy- and what I do \u2013 mediating disputes between related business partners \u2013 don\u2019t belong on the same shingle. But we both wonder why so many are willing to end treatment when pain subsides, not continuing into whatever they think wellness might be.<\/p>\n

My wife can write her own blog, but for me, I find family members often don\u2019t leave time to \u201csharpen the saw\u201d as Covey says (though Thoreau said it first). They\u2019ll invest to achieve 1\/1000000th inch tolerance in machines, but stay intolerant themselves. As if tolerance is even enough. I don\u2019t need my family to tolerate me, like an annoying rash. I want them to enjoy me! To have my back! Even my front!<\/p>\n

People quip you should need licenses to raise children, considering you can\u2019t drive a car or sell a beer without one. Not nearly as perilous, unless your unlicensed child drinks the beer and drives the car. But even if you rush into an unexamined family venture, take a bit of time to design the road ahead, to avoid that metaphorical head-on.<\/p>\n

The families most likely to go off the cliff, in my opinion, are those that God likes to call \u201cstiff necked people.\u201d They\u2019re self-righteous, unable to consider the perspectives of others. They pepper their sentences with \u201clet me explain something you don\u2019t understand.\u201d They absolutely cannot role-play, pretending for one minute they\u2019re their own brother, attempting to comprehend his point. They also can\u2019t play \u201cFamily Funny Money\u201d exchanging your own counterfeit currency to reward better behaviors, or pay \u201ctaxes\u201d for doing the same old thing; earning personalized perks (i.e.: time off, contributions to a hobby, work toys).<\/p>\n

When negotiating, it gives them more pleasure to withhold what others want than to trade for what they, themselves, need. They\u2019re excellent at catching others doing wrong, where the opposite would save dollars and brain cells for all. They are risk takers, yes; but they shudder at the notion of complimenting one another, in case they don\u2019t get one back, of greater or equal value.<\/p>\n

It seems rare, that family who really has each others\u2019 backs; where rewarding relationships seem easy, were easy from childhood, where in-laws are welcomed with open arms, where family works together because they take pleasure in each other, gains ground from rowing in the same direction, and are consumed with fine tuning themselves to make extraordinary music together.<\/p>\n

And if you\u2019re not perfect, a la most of us, you\u2019re still rare if you realize that \u201chaven\u2019t got time for the pain\u201d (as Carly Simon said, but Job said it first) doesn\u2019t mean avoid treatment. Invest yourselves, and appreciate the return.<\/p>\n

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